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"A co-founder of
Alcoholics Anonymous.
The birth of our Society
dates from his first day
of permanent sobriety,
June 10, 1935. To 1950,
the year of his death,
he carried the A.A.
message to more than
5,000 alcoholic men and
women, and to all these
he gave his medical
services without thought
of charge. In this
prodigy of service, he
was well assisted by
Sister Ignatia at St.
Thomas Hospital in
Akron, Ohio, one of the
greatest friends our
Fellowship will ever
know."
Dr. Bob met Bill W. and
stopped drinking on
Mother's Day, May 12,
1935, but about three
weeks later he drank
again while on a trip to
attend a medical
convention. His last
drink was June 10, 1935,
(or perhaps June 17,
1935, according to some
sources).
His son, "Smitty,"
described him as a very
sensitive man, who loved
being a doctor, and as
"a man's man," who was
also very courteous,
especially to women.
"Women felt comfortable
around him, because he
so obviously loved my
mom." Smitty also
describes him as having
a great sense of humor.
He was born on August 8,
1879, St. Johnsbury,
Vermont, about one
hundred miles northeast
of East Dorset, where
Bill W. was born. He was
the only child, of Judge
and Mrs. Walter P. S.,
who were influential in
business and civic
affairs. He had a much
older foster sister,
Amanda Northrup, of whom
he was quite fond.
His parents were pillars
of the North
Congregational Church in
St. Johnsbury. They
insisted Bob go to
church not only on
Sunday, several times
during the week. He
later rebelled against
this and decided he
wasn't going into a
church again except for
funerals or weddings.
And he didn't -- for
about forty years. But
the religious education
stood him in good stead
in future years. Smitty
said his father was one
of the few people he
knew who had read the
Bible from cover to
cover three times.
He entered St. Johnsbury
Academy at fifteen. At a
dance during his senior
year he met Anne Ripley
of Oak Park, Illinois, a
student at Wellesley on
holiday with a friend.
It was not a whirlwind
marriage. They weren't
married until seventeen
years later. He first
had to finish his
education, and later she
may have been reluctant
to marry him because of
his drinking.
Except for a secret
taste of hard cider when
he was about nine, he
didn't drink until he
was about nineteen and
attending Dartmouth
College in New
Hampshire, described as
"the drinkingest" of the
Ivy League schools.
A tattoo he wore the
rest of his life was
probably from those days
at Dartmouth: a dragon
and a compass tattoo.
The dragon wound around
his left arm from the
shoulder to the wrist.
It was blue with red
fire. His son thinks "he
had to have been drunk
to have it put there,
and you didn't do
something that
complicated in a day.
When I asked him how he
got it, he said, 'Boy,
that was a dandy!' And
it must have been, too."
He wanted to be a
doctor, but for some
reason his mother
opposed it, so he spent
the next three years in
Boston, Chicago, and
Montreal working.
Finally he began
studying medicine, first
at the University of
Michigan, and then at
Rush University near
Chicago. His drinking
interfered with his
medical education
repeatedly, but he
eventually received his
medical degree, and
secured a coveted
internship at City
Hospital in Akron. After
his two years internship
he opened an office.
Soon his alcoholism
progressed and he was
hospitalized repeatedly.
His father sent a doctor
to Akron to take him
back to Vermont where he
stayed for a few months,
then he returned to his
practice, sufficiently
frightened that he did
not drink again for some
time. During this sober
period he married Anne.
During Prohibition he
thought it would be safe
to try a little
drinking, since it would
not be possible, so he
thought, to get large
quantities. But it was
easy for doctors to
obtain alcohol. He also
used sedatives to hide
his "jitters." Things
went from bad to worse.
In the late 1920s, he
decided that he wanted
to be a surgeon, perhaps
because he would be able
to control his schedule
more easily in this
specialty than he could
as a general
practitioner. The
patients wouldn't be
calling him for help all
hours of the day or
night, so they wouldn't
catch him when he was
drinking.
He went to Rochester,
Minnesota, and studied
under the Mayo brothers.
He became a rectal
surgeon, and did nothing
but surgery for the
balance of his life. But
Smitty says that the
other doctors knew he
was a drunk, so the
referrals were scarce
and his practice small.
(Despite the financial
problems, they were able
to keep the house during
the Great Depression
because the Federal
Government placed a
moratorium on
foreclosures.)
When he was introduced
to the Oxford Group he
tried hard for three
years to follow their
program, and did a lot
of study, both of
spirituality and of
alcoholism. But it
wasn't until Bill Wilson
arrived in the spring of
1935 that Dr. Bob found
the kind of help he
needed - one alcoholic
talking to another.
Smitty describes Bill
Wilson as being the
opposite of his dad and
both of them were needed
for the success of A.A.
He once joked: "If it
had been up to my dad,
A.A. would never have
spread beyond Akron. Had
it been up to Bill, they
would have sold
franchises." On another
occasion he said: "Bill
was garrulous, Bill was
a promoter, Bill was a
visionary. I think Bill
W. could see further in
the world than anyone
I've ever known. My dad
wasn't that way." (Dr.
Bob was quiet, cautious,
conservative, steady,
insistent on keeping
things simple.)
Anne S. died on June 2,
1949. Bill noted that
she was "quite
literally, the mother of
our first group, Akron
Number One. In the full
sense of the word, she
was one of the founders
of Alcoholics
Anonymous."
Serenely remarking to
his attendant, "I think
this is it," Dr. Bob
died on November 16,
1950. The funeral
service was held at the
old Episcopal Church by
Dr. Walter Tunks, whose
answer to a telephone
call fifteen years
earlier had led to the
meeting between Dr. Bob
and Bill W. He was
buried at Mt. Peace
Cemetery, next to Anne.
There is no large
monument on his grave.
Doctor Bob, who always
admonished A.A. to "keep
it simple," when he
heard that friends were
planning a monument,
remarked "Annie and I
plan to be buried just
like other folks."
Alcoholics Anonymous
itself is Dr. Bob's
monument.
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