- Am I an alcoholic?
If you repeatedly drink more than you
intend or want to, or if you get into trouble when you drink you may be
an alcoholic. Only you can decide. No one in A.A. will tell you
whether you are or not.
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What can I do if I am worried about my drinking?
Seek
help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
- What is Alcoholics Anonymous?
We are a Fellowship of men
and women who have lost the ability to control our drinking and have
found ourselves in various sorts of trouble as a result of drink. We
attempt—most of us successfully—to create a satisfactory way of life
without alcohol. For this we find we need the help and support of other
alcoholics in A.A.
- If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that commit me to
anything?
No. A.A. keeps no membership files, or attendance
records. You need disclose nothing about yourself. No one will bother
you if you don’t want to come back.
- What happens if I meet people I know in A.A?
They will be
there for the same reason you are there. They will not disclose your
identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much anonymity as you wish.
That is one of the reasons we call ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
- What happens at an A.A. meeting?
An A.A. meeting may take
one of several forms, but at any meeting you will find alcoholics
talking about what drink did to their lives and personalities, what
actions they took to deal with this, and how they are living their lives
today.
- How can this help me with my drink problem?
We in A.A.
know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be unable to keep
promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop drinking. We are
not professional therapists. Our only qualification for helping others
to recover from alcoholism is that we have recovered ourselves, but
problem drinkers coming to us know that recovery is possible because
they see people who have done it.
- Why do A.A.s keep on going to meetings after they are
cured?
We in the fellowship of A.A. believe there is no such
thing as a cure for alcoholism. We can never return to normal drinking,
and our ability to stay away from alcohol depends on maintaining our
physical, mental, and spiritual health. This we can achieve by going to
meetings regularly and putting into practice what we learn there. In
addition, we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other alcoholics.
- How do I join A.A.?
You are an A.A. member if and when you
say so. The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop
drinking, and many of us were not very wholehearted about that when we
first approached A.A.
- How much does A.A. membership cost?
There are no dues or
fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually have a collection
during the meeting to cover running expenses, such as rent, coffee,
etc., and to this all members are free to contribute as much or as
little as they wish.
- Is A.A. a religious organization?
No. Nor is it allied to
any religious organization.
- There’s a lot of talk about God, though, isn’t there?
The
majority of A.A. members believe that we have found the solution to our
drinking problem not through individual willpower, but through a power
greater than ourselves. However, everyone defines this power as he or
she wishes. Many people call it God, others think it is the collective
therapy of A.A, still others don’t believe in it at all. There is room
in A.A. for people of all shades of belief and nonbelief.
- Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting?
Family members
or close friends are welcome at “Open” A.A. meetings. Discuss this with
your local contact.
- What advice do you give new members?
In our experience,
the people who recover in A.A. are those who: (1) stay away from the
first drink; (2) attend A.A. meetings regularly; (3) seek out the
people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for some time; (4)
try to put into practice the A.A. program of recovery.
- How can I contact A.A.?
Look for Alcoholics Anonymous in
your local telephone directory. In many places a local A.A number is also
included in the useful numbers section. These telephones are manned by
volunteers who will be happy to answer your questions, or put you in
touch with those who can.
Remember that alcoholism is a progressive
illness. Take it seriously, even if you think you are at an early stage of
the illness. Alcoholism is a killer disease. If you are an alcoholic and
if you continue to drink, in time you will get worse.
Some other AA Pamphlets
| Is AA for You? |
| 15 Points |
| How it Works |
| Now that you've stopped |
| Young people in AA |
| AA for the woman |
| Letter to a woman alcoholic |
| Problems other than alcohol |
| Do you think you're different |
| A members eye
view |
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Lets Ask Bill W. These
excerpts from various talks and articles by and on Bill W.
reveal a wealth
of the thinking and insight of one of the
co-founder's of Alcoholics Anonymous.
1. -
The
Disease Concept - How do you justify calling
alcoholism an illness, and not a moral
responsibility? 2. -
Mental
Obsession - What is meant by mental obsession and
the obsessional character of
alcoholism? 3. -
How
Does AA Work? - Just how does A.A.
work? 4. -
A
Continued Existence - How can A.A. best assure
its continued existence? 5. -
Early
AA 12th Step - When you first sobered up how did
you approach alcoholics and did you change that
approach? 6. -
What
Happened to Ebby? - What happened to your
sponsor, Ebby? 7. -
Oxford
Group Info - What did A.A. learn from the Oxford
Group and why did they leave them? 8. -
Agnostics
& God - What about the alcoholic who says
that he cannot possibly believe in
God? 9. - Medicine,
Religion & AA - How do medicine and religion
differ in their approach to the alcoholic? 10. -
Origins
of the Traditions - What were the conditions that
led to the Twelve Traditions? 11. - Still
More Traditions Info - Have the Traditions been
widely accepted? 12. -
General
Service Conference - What will the General
Service Conference do? 13. -
AA
& Other Agencies
- Could you explain AA's
tradition concerning other agencies in the field of
alcoholism. 14. - The
12 Concepts - What purposes do the Twelve
Concepts for World Services serve? 15. - Remembering
AA's Early Friends - Bill never tired of telling
the story of A.A.s' beginning and giving thanks for our many
early friends. This is how he told it to the General Service
Conference in 1952. 16. -
Are
Alcoholics "Different?"
- Do alcoholics as a
class differ from other people? 17. -
Is
It All Bill W's Experience?
- Is A.A. based
totally on your own experiences? 18. -
"A Rapid Growth Problem?"
- Wouldn't too rapid
growth be bad, both for the new alcoholics and for Alcoholics
Anonymous itself? 19. -
Bill
W's Spiritual Experience
- Could you describe
your spiritual experience for us and your understanding of
what happened? 20. -
Early
AA - Could you tell us about the early days and
the meetings in your home on Clinton Street? 21. -
Meet
AA #3 - How did you meet A.A. No.3, Bill
D.? 22. -
More
Big Book Info - Was the writing of the Big Book a
difficult job? 23. -
St.
Ignatius & The Steps
- Can the Twelve Steps
be compared to the Spiritual Exercises of St.
Ignatius? 24. -
Father Dowling's
Influence - How did you meet Father Ed
Dowling? 25. -
More
on the Traditions - What are the ideas embodied
in the Twelve Traditions? 26. -
GSO
Financing - How will the proposed General Service
Conference be financed? 27. -
AA
Government? - Why shouldn't the General Service
Conference be a government for Alcoholics
Anonymous? 28. -
Drug
Addicts & AA - How many drug addicts are
there in A.A. and in the organization similar to A.A. which
operates among drug addicts? 29. -
Right
of Appeal - What purpose does the right of appeal
serve? 30. -
Are
Alcoholics "Neurotic?" - Are alcoholics
neurotic? 31. -
What
is Alcoholism? - What is
alcoholism? 32. -
Is
AA a Religion? - Is Alcoholics Anonymous a new
religion? A competitor of the Church? 33. -
What
Is AA's Success Rate? - What is the success rate
of Alcoholics Anonymous? 34. -
Carl
Jung's Contribution - What contribution did Dr.
Carl Jung make to A.A.? 35. -
Ebby's
Message to Bill - What effect did Ebby's message
have on you? 36. -
Clergy
& AA - Why do clergymen so often fail with
alcoholics, when A.A. so often succeeds? Is it possible that
the grace of A.A. is superior to that of the
Church? 37. -
AA
and the Community - What is AA's relationship
with the community? 38. -
Short
GSO History - Why the General Service
Conference? 39. -
The
Rockefeller Connection
- How did the connection
between the Rockefeller's and Alcoholics Anonymous
develop? 40. -
The
Three Legacies - What do the Three Legacies of AA
represent? 41. -
Drunks
in AA Meetings? - If an alcoholic comes to an
A.A. meeting under the influence of alcohol, how do you treat
him or handle him during the meeting?
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