A CLOSE SHAVE
THE year 1890 witnessed my advent as the youngest of five sons to a fine
Christian mother and a hard working blacksmith father. At the age of eight my
father used to send me after his pail of beer and it was by lapping the foam off
the beer that I first d iscovered that the taste was much to my liking. By the
time I was fourteen, at which time I quit school, I had found that wine and hard
cider were also pleasing to my palate. The next six years I spent learning the
art of barbering and by the end of this period I had become both a proficient
barber and an earnest drinker.
During the next 10 or 12 years I was able to acquire several lucrative shops,
some with poolrooms and restaurants attached. It seemed quite impossible however
for me to stand prosperity so I would drink myself out of one situation, get
myself together a b it, develop another, and then repeat the performance.
The time came when I could no longer refinance myself so I began to float
about the country, getting a job here and there as I could, but invariably I got
fired in a short time because of my unreliability.
My marriage, which occurred in 1910 about the time I started my successful
ownership of shops, resulted in our having a family of ten children who were
usually desperately in need because I used my slender income for booze instead
of providing for them.
I finally secured a job in a shop in a town of about 4,500 people, where I
now live. My reputation for drinking soon became more or less generally known.
About this time a deacon and the pastor of one of the local churches used to
come in the shop for the ir work and were constantly inviting me to church and
Bible classes, which invitations irritated me very much. I earnestly wished they
would mind their own business.
I finally did accept one or two invitations to social functions at the home
of one of these men, and was received so cordially that the barrier between us
was partially lowered.
I did not stop drinking however, though my feeling toward these men was
kindly. They at last persuaded me to go to a nearby town to have a talk with a
doctor who had had a great deal of experience with this type of trouble. I
listened to the man for two h ours, and although my mind was quite foggy, I
retained a good deal of what he said. I feel that the combined effort of these
three Christian gentlemen made it possible for me to have a vital spiritual
experience. This occurred in March, 1937. I have had n o trouble since.
For about six years previous to this time I was never at any time completely
free from the influence of liquor.
Since that time I have regained the love of my family and the respect of the
community, and can truthfully say that the past few years have been the happiest
of my life.
I have busied myself a great deal during these few years in helping others
who were afflicted as I was, and the combined efforts of the deacon, the pastor,
and myself, have resulted in nine other men finding a way out of difficulties
which were identical with mine. I feel this activity has played an important
part in my mastery of this most devastating habit.
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